Ask the Therapist: Something feels off in my relationship
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and since May he has gotten a new job position with a lot of responsibility. He now has a female co worker who he calls his partner…He spends a lot of time with her everyday even after work hours, she always wants to take him to dinner or to lunch and buy it for him … She supposedly always wants to spend time with me and get to know and I’ve meet her twice at work events and she’s only said about two words to me.
Recently my boyfriend got invited to wedding that’s in another state through a mutual work friend and his female co worker got invited too and a few other females co workers . He told me that there weren’t anymore extra tickets for me to come. So I tried to include myself on the trip because I had relatives in the area of the wedding . (And also his female co worker told him she’ll pay for 90% of his trip which seemed wrong.)
When he told me about the wedding I felt uncomfortable with him going to wedding to a couple he’s never even told me