Ask the Therapist: My boyfriend’s job is more important than me
I came across one of the questions which I could relate to my life while I was searching for – what to do if you have a busy partner.
Actually I am in a relationship with a guy since 4 years now. We started off happily and we use to spend almost every single second of the day with each other – being physically present with each other or just talking on phone. I understand that it was just starting but we had a great connection since starting.
But things started to change, for me, since last year when he joined an over demanding job. He works almost as soon as he wakes up and keep on taking office calls till he drops me back home every evening after work. I use to get really frustrated with him for not paying attention to me during our evening ‘our time’ keeping in mind that he isn’t able to get time throughout the day to speak with me because of his busy schedule of meetings with the clients as he is into sales.
Since last two months, during every weekend he has just blown off every plan that we have made. We decided to take